Four Ways to Make the Best of Your First Visit to See a Loved One at Glens Falls Center
Having a parent or a loved one transition to a nursing home or long-term care facility can be a difficult time for all involved. Transitions are tough, especially as we age. We at the Glens Falls Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing are devoted to making sure this period is as pleasant as possible, and we would like to offer some advice for your first visit.
- Schedule Your Visit
We understand that every situation is different, and that may determine whether you visit a day or two after your mom or dad moves in, or whether you give them a few days to get settled and adjusted to new routines and new faces. Whichever you decide, communicate that with your loved one and let them know exactly when you will be coming. If necessary, inform a staff member so they can remind the new resident when they will have a visitor.
2. Bring Something with Sentimental Value
When you come, bring an item that has meaning to your loved one. It could be something simple like a framed photo. Albums, books or an item of clothing are also good things that bring joy and familiarity to get your visit off to a good start.
3. Have an Activity Planned
Certainly, ask your parent if there’s anything that they would like to do with you while you are there, but you should have a plan in case they do not. If the weather is pleasant, you can take a walk around the grounds. You can play a board game or work on a puzzle. If your loved one is tired or has a lower activity level, reading aloud from a book or watching a movie or favorite TV show can be a calming experience. For the first visit, it’s best to do something in your mom or dad’s new surroundings, rather than taking them out to eat our back to your house. It will help acclimate them to their new home and will reinforce to you that this is their home, so you too can get comfortable with the new surroundings.
4. Remind Them of Your Love
If you sense that your loved one will be lonely after you leave, try to make sure he or she is with someone they are comfortable with or settled into an activity or meal. Remind your parent that he or she is loved and tell them the next time you will visit or call.
In Times of Transition, Be Flexible
These are not hard and fast rules. What works for many may not work in your situation. Everyone handles transition and change in different ways. It’s a good idea to contact the staff to see if your visit was well-received or if it might be better to visit on a different day or time next time. Good communication with your loved one and the staff will give you the best chances for a great visit.
